REDLANDS - The students of
Arrowhead Christian Academy
never met former student Nathan
Heavilin, but they may remember
him for generations to come.
On Wednesday the school
dedicated a memorial garden and
plaque in his honor.
His nomadic parents, Marilyn
and Glen Heavilin, formerly of
Redlands, travel the world in
their mobile home to share the
story of Nathan, who was a
17-year-old junior at ACA when
he was killed on Feb. 10, 1983
by a drunken driver.
Nathan's twin brother Ethan
died of pneumonia when they were
only 10 days old, and another
brother, Jimmy, died at 7 weeks
of sudden infant death syndrome.
During
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A depiction of Nathan
Heavilin's face is
engraved on a plaque
overlooking Nate's
Place, a memorial garden
built to honor his
memory. (Photos by DAVID
JAMES HEISS/Redlands
Daily Facts) |
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an assembly in the school's
chapel prior to the garden
dedication, Marilyn addressed
the school.
"We always thought you would
be safe, that the Lord would
protect you," she said. "God
continues to work with us and
continues to sustain us. The
pain" of Nathan's death "is so
deep. He was not an unusual
person, he was just special and
I enjoyed having him around."
She named Nathan after Nate
Saint, one of five missionaries
in Ecuador who was killed in
1956, and about whom a recent
movie, "The End of the Spear,"
was based, she said.
She met Saint's mother a year
after Nathan died, and they were
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Nate's Place, a garden
intended for meditative
reflection, was
dedicated Wednesday at
Arrowhead Christian
Academy. |
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able to exchange stories.
The Heavilins traveled to
Ecuador at one point to collect
a rock from the area in which
Saint was killed.
"It's important to remember
and build rock piles," Marilyn
said. "Joshua talks in the Old
Testament about building rock
piles so that we can tell
children what happened."
The Rev. Lowell Linden from
First Congregational Church of
Redlands presided over the
garden dedication ceremony of
Nate's Place, located to the
right of the main building's
entrance.
Administrator Steve Hicok
described as Nate's Place as "a
place for our students and our
community to go and reflect on
how precious
life is, and to remember the
dangers of drunk driving."
"For us having just lost
another student about a month
ago," students could relate to
the situation, Hicok said,
referring to ACA football star
Aaron Finfrock, who was killed
in a motorcycle accident March
22. Finfrock died a day before
his 21st birthday, leaving
behind several siblings,
including his brother Nathan.
Hicok said that donations had
been collected "for years" to
build the memorial, which
includes an engraved plaque with
Nathan's visage depicted on it,
and the project was only
recently approved by the
school's board of trustees, some
of who were at the invite-only
dedication of Nate's Place.
Among the donations is a
waterfall and pond donated by
Exotic Aquatics of Redlands.
Senior Whitney Freeman, who
will attend Texas Christian
University in the fall to study
nursing, helped construct the
garden one day after school.
"The school meant a lot to a
lot of people who went to ACA,
and I wanted to contribute to
making this place for them," she
said. "I learned a lot about
Nate" while working on the
project. "I wanted to learn more
about his story."
Glen Heavilin said, "The
students of ACA weren't even
born when Nathan went to school
here. It's a joy to see that
Nathan's still remembered after
all this time, and that they
worked on this so that he'll be
remembered for years to come."
E-mail Staff Writer David
James Heiss at
dheiss@redlandsdailyfacts.com
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